8 Important factors that can Insha’Allah strengthen a marriage relationship in Islam!
#Good_Attitude:
Say “Alhamdulillah” for whatever Allah gives us. Accept each other completely. As our Prophet (PBHH) said, if you dislike one of his/her characteristics, you will be pleased with another.
#Help:
Our Prophet (PBUH) stressed the importance of men helping their wives. Allah tells us the importance of women being mates and helpers to their husbands. This is a real “win-win” situation. Husband and wife helping and supporting each other will result in a strong relationship.
#Trust:
They should never expose their secrets to a third person. Prophet (PBUH) said in Sahih Muslim that the most wicked among the people in the eye of Allah on the Day of judgment will be those men who divulges their wife’s secrets to others.
#Respect:
You get respect when you give respect. This is mandatory for all Muslims toward all people, how much more toward the spouse?
#Joy:
Our Prophet (PBUH) used to entertain His Wife Ayesha (R.A) and She used to play and race with Him.
#Forgiveness:
Whoever does not forgive – will not be forgiven. This comes from Allah, Himself. We must learn to forgive each others for a good spouse relationship in Islam.
#Time:
Spend time together. Go for walks. Take a bus ride. Visit a friend or someone who is ill (you get big rewards for that). Fast together on Mondays & Thursdays if you can. Make hajj – this is a great way to get a “new start” on life.
#Worship:
Our Prophet (PBUH) used to lead His Wife in Prayer, even though He lived connected to the mosque. He told us not to make our homes like grave yards. We should offer some of our Sunnah prayers at home.
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May Allah SWT bless all our marriages Ameen.
Waseem
Waseem Ahmad
This article is about Relationship with non mehram/Love before Marriage...
Right is Right even no one is doing it and Wrong is Wrong even if everyone is doing it.. So Haram is Haram no matter how widely accepted or practice it is...
So love before marriage is haram, Relationship with any non mehram is totally haram in Islam...
Talking, chatting with any non mehram is prohibited in Islam... No matter how much someone is important for you, or how much you both love with each other...
Without Nikah it's Haram, it's Haram. Don't please your Nafs.. The pleasure of Nafs is temporary.. But the grief, sorrows and guilt lasts forever, because we are committing Sin, because we are disobeying Allah and His rules.
Allah says in Quran: "And of everything We have created pairs".
Then why everyone is so hasty today?
Does He/She can't wait for the Halal one?
Does He/She can't for the one whom Allah has chosen already for him/her?
Do they not believe in Allah's promise that like other things He created you in pairs also..
In Quran Allah says : "And We have created you in pairs".
Is this statement is not enough for you?
Who can be the most True and accurate in His statement except Allah? Indeed No one.
Than why every man and woman is in so hurry and become involved in haram relation...
Let me clear one thing that Islam is not against liking or loving someone. Falling in love isn’t haram, it’s what you do with that love that makes it haram or halal. Islam just set some rules and created some limits, even Islam gives permission to man choose the women he likes for nikah. In Islam even women has permission to like someone and can propose him if she likes him..
We just need to understand the limits and then proceed.. And these limits are in our benefits.
If you love/like someone then first make dua and after dua do istekhara.. If after istekhara you get positive answer from Allah then do your best for marrying him/her. Insha'Allah, Allah will help you. Allah will make a way for you.
Do Nikah, Nikah is Sunnah, The Holy Prophet Sallallahu Alahi Waali Wasalam said, "Nikah is my Sunnah and one is who disobey my Sunnah does not belong to me.."
True love starts after Nikah...
Let me clear one thing more, in Islam it is not allowed that any 2 non mehram talk with each other with the hope of Nikah, that one day we will be together, so keep on contacting and talking..
No ,No it is not allowed in Islam..
Islam says if you like someone than do Nikah...
And if you are engaged, you are still non mehram for each other. You have to follow these rules...
Allah's plans are best, we have to trust in Allah... Allah does not do anything before time nor after time, He does what He wants to do at the proper and exact time..
Just wait for the right time, right moment and for the right person. Allah will make a way one day.
No need to worry about your future, just Pray + Struggle and leave it on Allah and keep calm. Leave your Haram relationship for Allah than surely Allah will give you what you want and what's best for you.
As a Muslim it is our duty to follow Allah's rules, follow Prophet's Sunnah then our life in this world and in the next world as well would be great... Insha'Allah.
If you were at wrong path then don't worry Allah's Mercy is very vast... Allah's love is greater than you could imagine... Just come back to Allah and seek His forgiveness..Indeed Allah is most Forgiving and Most Merciful.
Credits: Hoorain Sheikh
Waseem
Waseem Ahmad
A Small Beautiful Motivational Story!
There was once a man who was madly in love with his wife even though they had been together for more than 10 years, when he was asked what it was about her that he was all praise, he said:
”Ever since we got married, to my aggravation, she never stopped asking me to perform my prayers. Year after year passed by but I did not give two hoots about what she said, but on our 10th wedding anniversary, I asked her what she wanted as her gift and she simply told that my best gift to her would be if I started to pray. I could not deny it to her this time and now as a result, I am very regular with them. She is the one who is responsible for this pleasant change in my life and I love her for it. In fact, I just cannot believe that I have wasted so many years of my life without them.”
☛ Narrated Abu Huraira (May Allah Pleased with Him) narrated that: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “A woman is married for four things, i.e.,
1. Her wealth.
2. Her family status
3. Her beauty and
4. Her religion
So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser.”
[Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27]
