This article is about Relationship with non mehram/Love before Marriage...
Right is Right even no one is doing it and Wrong is Wrong even if everyone is doing it.. So Haram is Haram no matter how widely accepted or practice it is...
So love before marriage is haram, Relationship with any non mehram is totally haram in Islam...
Talking, chatting with any non mehram is prohibited in Islam... No matter how much someone is important for you, or how much you both love with each other...
Without Nikah it's Haram, it's Haram. Don't please your Nafs.. The pleasure of Nafs is temporary.. But the grief, sorrows and guilt lasts forever, because we are committing Sin, because we are disobeying Allah and His rules.
Allah says in Quran: "And of everything We have created pairs".
Then why everyone is so hasty today?
Does He/She can't wait for the Halal one?
Does He/She can't for the one whom Allah has chosen already for him/her?
Do they not believe in Allah's promise that like other things He created you in pairs also..
In Quran Allah says : "And We have created you in pairs".
Is this statement is not enough for you?
Who can be the most True and accurate in His statement except Allah? Indeed No one.
Than why every man and woman is in so hurry and become involved in haram relation...
Let me clear one thing that Islam is not against liking or loving someone. Falling in love isn’t haram, it’s what you do with that love that makes it haram or halal. Islam just set some rules and created some limits, even Islam gives permission to man choose the women he likes for nikah. In Islam even women has permission to like someone and can propose him if she likes him..
We just need to understand the limits and then proceed.. And these limits are in our benefits.
If you love/like someone then first make dua and after dua do istekhara.. If after istekhara you get positive answer from Allah then do your best for marrying him/her. Insha'Allah, Allah will help you. Allah will make a way for you.
Do Nikah, Nikah is Sunnah, The Holy Prophet Sallallahu Alahi Waali Wasalam said, "Nikah is my Sunnah and one is who disobey my Sunnah does not belong to me.."
True love starts after Nikah...
Let me clear one thing more, in Islam it is not allowed that any 2 non mehram talk with each other with the hope of Nikah, that one day we will be together, so keep on contacting and talking..
No ,No it is not allowed in Islam..
Islam says if you like someone than do Nikah...
And if you are engaged, you are still non mehram for each other. You have to follow these rules...
Allah's plans are best, we have to trust in Allah... Allah does not do anything before time nor after time, He does what He wants to do at the proper and exact time..
Just wait for the right time, right moment and for the right person. Allah will make a way one day.
No need to worry about your future, just Pray + Struggle and leave it on Allah and keep calm. Leave your Haram relationship for Allah than surely Allah will give you what you want and what's best for you.
As a Muslim it is our duty to follow Allah's rules, follow Prophet's Sunnah then our life in this world and in the next world as well would be great... Insha'Allah.
If you were at wrong path then don't worry Allah's Mercy is very vast... Allah's love is greater than you could imagine... Just come back to Allah and seek His forgiveness..Indeed Allah is most Forgiving and Most Merciful.
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